YOU WON’T LEARN TANTRIC SEX DURING FEW-DAY WORKSHOP FOR COUPLES

Unfortunately, nowadays, many „experts” in tantra compete with each other in offering workshops for couples, promising that this will make them Tantric lovers. There is nothing wrong with that; everything that deepens the connection between two people and builds intimacy is good. Anything that develops our sexual awareness is necessary, and we should take advantage of it. Perhaps your interest in Tantric sex is just a desire to spice up your sex life. Regardless of the goals, it is essential to understand what Tantric Sex, Tantric Love, truly is. The most important thing you need to know is that there are no shortcuts in Tantric Love. You will not learn Tantric Sex in a few days. It is not like a manual instruction that turns your bedroom into a Tantric paradise. It is not about few positions from the Kama Sutra that will turn you into tantric lovers. To become a true Tantric Lover, you must be ready to transcend conventional beliefs and behaviors related to sex. So, do not be misled by attractive and enjoyable shortcuts, even those organized in Bali 😊.

TANTRIC SEX REQUIRES MONTHS, SOMETIMES YEARS, OF PREPARATION AND PRACTICE

It is a challenge for both partners, requiring immense patience, discipline, and mutual motivation. Approaches like „10 steps to Tantric sex” or „5 tricks to becoming a better lover” do not apply here. I am not saying this to make anyone unhappy or disappointed. On the contrary, I want to show that something such beautiful and valuable as Tantric Love cannot be achieved with shortcut solutions. There are no compromises; either it is Tantric Sex, or it is just a variation of regular sex we’re used to.

You might ask: Why months of preparation? It is not a marathon!
I will answer: It’s more than a marathon.

A marathon lasts an hour or two, and still, thousands of people prepare for it for months to achieve their desired medal, dream „time trial,” or stand on the podium. And how long does the pleasure of victory last? A moment.
With Tantric Love, it is entirely different. Once you invest time and effort, discover its beauty, you’ll never go back to regular sex. Accessing the Tantric paradise has no return; no one wants to go back to what was before. From this paradise, you can draw joy for the rest of your life, and the pleasure lasts, lasts, and lasts, not just for a moment but longer, healing your life on all levels.

TANTRIC SEX IS A SMALL PART OF THE TANTRA SYSTEM

Yes, Tantra is an organized spiritual system, a vast Science of Energy offering practical tools and techniques for individuals to develop their inner world and lead a happy and harmonious life. Thanks to this wonderful teaching, we can become masters of our destiny and find the answer to the fundamental question: Who am I really? Once we know this, the world becomes a realm of possibilities, not a hell of disappointments.

Tantric Sex is just a small part of this system but a crucial one. It is one of the Tantric paths leading to self-realization or even to enlightenment. This means that to make love in a Tantric way, you must embody Tantric Principles. For many, the word „Principles” may clash with the modern, neo-Tantric approach, where everyone loves each other and dissolves in bliss. True Tantra requires strong will and discipline, but once achieved, you will never go back to the sex you knew before. Those who decide to take Tantric Practice seriously, not just as a few-day adventure and a relaxation opportunity, will discover that the journey to the Tantric promised land is breathtaking and magical.

TANTRIC SEX IS MORE THAN EXTRAORDINARY ORGASMS

Tantric Sex is one of the Tantric paths to spiritual enlightenment. Yes! Sex can go hand in hand with spirituality, and Tantra is the only teaching and system that allows it. Tantrics often call Tantric Sex the highway to enlightenment. It is a powerful and healing form of intimacy that can bring wonderful effects in all areas of life – physical, mental, emotional, sexual, and spiritual.

What is your choice?

• A few-second orgasm OR hours of ecstasy and nirvana?
• Experiencing within genitals OR experiencing within your entire body and soul
• Momentary tension released OR a healing and transforming ritual?
• The act where it is just the two of you OR Oneness and Cosmic Union?

TANTRIC SEX EXCLUDES THE LOSS OF ENERGY

As mentioned above, the road to paradise is never a shortcut. So, what is the deal with these challenges, practices, and principals?

Well, Tantric Lovers do not allow the loss of precious sexual energy. It is the most crucial Principle in Tantric Love. In the case of women, energy loss occurs during explosive orgasms, and in the case of men, it happens during ejaculation. We lose this valuable and life-giving energy because we were never taught another way. A Tantric couple, while making love, uses sexual energy like an elevator that is supposed to take them both higher and higher, to higher consciousness, divine union, to the truth about themselves and self-realization. Therefore, they do not lose this energy but use it skillfully. Just like surfers patiently ride the big ocean waves, hunting for the highest waves, not settling for low ocean swells. They are persistent and uncompromising in that.

For a man to become a Tantric Lover, he must separate a pair: orgasm and ejaculation. For a woman to become a Tantric Lover, she must know how to control her sexual energy and support the man in practices that help him transform ejaculatory orgasm into Tantric Orgasm. I use the word „must” not without reason. I’m not forcing anyone into Tantric Sex. However, you cannot take only what’s pleasant and easy from Tantra as it becomes just a way to spice up your sex life, not an authentic Tantric path.

How not to lose sexual energy? Tantra offers a variety of effective and practical techniques, enabling conscious control of energy.

TANTRIC SEX IS NOT A MYTH, MAGIC OR SCIENCE FICTION

The biggest myth and lie we have been taught since birth is that sex is merely a mechanical act serving two purposes – reproduction and satisfying instinctual desires. Certainly, many men will „shout” that the lack of ejaculation is unhealthy and against nature. Many women will not like the idea of Tantric Sex without fireworks, where the climax is not the ejaculatory orgasm of a man. To dispel doubts about the existence of Tantric Sex, whose main pillar is energy control, not its loss, there are scientific studies, testimonials from well-known personalities, and academic articles confirming real and tangible results. As the old saying goes, the tree is known by its fruits. To completely eliminate all doubts, you must experience it for yourself.